They “innocently” strain your physical boundaries.ĭoes your new boo continue to tickle you even after you tell them to stop? When you ask for personal space, do they continue to touch you in seemingly benign ways (such hugs, shoulder rubs, or even poking you in the arm like a sibling)? This could be an indication that they do not respect your right to your own body and will try to push those boundaries to even more dangerous lengths in the future. Also, you must try to play this What Is Your Red Flag Quiz. What if one partner’s ideal sex life includes having sex practically every night, while the other is satisfied with having sex only a few times a month? When one partner is continually initiating sex and the other isn’t in the mood very often, it’s a recipe for bruised egos, hurt feelings, emotional pressure, and resentment on both sides. There is no wrong amount of sex to have (or not have) in life, but it is critical that you and your partner share a similar libido or, at the absolute least, have a strategy in place to deal with any disparities. Their sexual urge is either much higher or much lower than yours.
